November, 2003


18
Nov 03

Gay Citizens and Parity

The Supreme Judicial Court today became the nation’s first state supreme court to rule that same-sex couples have the legal right to marry.

Gay population: The 2000 Census estimated there were about 19,000 gay couples in Mass., and about 659,000 nationwide, or less than 1 percent of households.

Following are brief profiles of the seven gay couples who sued Massachusetts for the right to marry in the case, known as Goodridge et al v. Department of Public Health:

•Hillary Goodridge, 46, and Julie Goodridge, 46, of Boston, who have been together for more than 15 years, chose a common last name in anticipation of the birth of their child, Annie, who is now 7 years old. Goodridge was Hillary’s grandmother’s middle name. When Julie gave birth, Hillary had difficulty gaining access to Annie at the hospital. Julie is the president and founder of NorthStar Asset Management. Hillary is the program director of the Unitarian Universalist Funding Program.

•David Wilson, 58, and Robert Compton, 53, celebrated a commitment ceremony in October 2000. Wilson is a past president of the Greater Boston Business Council and works as vice president at Spaulding & Slye Colliers International. Compton is a dentist and director of disease management at Delta Dental Plan of Massachusetts. Wilson has three children and six grandchildren.

•Gloria Bailey, 62, and Linda Davies, 57, of Orleans, recently celebrated 32 years together. They have both worked as psychotherapists for decades and have masters’ degrees in social work. Facing retirement, the couple is particularly concerned about the uncertainty of their legal status if one of them becomes ill or dies.

•Richard Linnell, 39, and Gary Chalmers, 37, of Northbridge, have been together for 14 years and have an adopted 9-year-old daughter, Paige. The family lives with Linnell’s mother. Linnell is a part-time nursing instructor and emergency room nurse. Chalmers teaches in the Shrewsbury schools.

•Maureen Brodoff, 50, and Ellen Wade, 54, of Newton, met in law school and have been together for more than 20 years. They have a 14-year-old daughter, Katie, whom they jointly adopted in 1994. Wade started her own law firm in Brookline and Brodoff works as general counsel and vice president at a nonprofit organization.

•Gina Smith and Heidi Norton, both 38, of Northampton, have been together for 12 years and held a ceremony to celebrate their union in 1993. The couple has two sons, Avery, 7, and Quinn, 3, born to Norton and adopted by Smith. In 1998, Smith reduced her work schedule as a researcher at the Center for Contemplative Mind in Society to spend more time with the young boys. Norton is the law program director at the same center.

•Ed Balmelli, 42, and Michael Horgan, 43, of Boston, have been together for nearly 10 years. Balmelli is a computer engineer at Lucent Technologies and Horgan is a computer systems administrator. The couple traveled to Vermont in 2000 to have a civil union ceremony.

Global Views on Homosexuality Poll Results

“We declare that barring an individual from the protections, benefits and obligations of civil marriage solely because that person would marry a person of the same sex violates the Massachusetts constitution,” Chief Justice Margaret Marshall wrote in the 4-3 decision.

The ruling won’t take effect for 180 days in order to allow the Legislature “to take such action as it may deem appropriate in light of this opinion,” the court ruled in its 50-page decision. Since the SJC is the ultimate authority on the state constitution, however, the Legislature cannot overturn today’s decision — nor would the US Supreme Court agree to interpret a state’s constitution.

Opponents could fight for a constitutional amendment, but the soonest that could be placed on the ballot is 2006. The Legislature has already been considering several bills, including one that would allow gay marriage, that would grant benefits to same-sex couples.

The SJC ruling held that the Massachusetts constitution “forbids the creation of second-class citizens.” The state Attorney General’s office, which argued to the court that state law doesn’t allow gay couples to marry, “has failed to identify any constitutionally adequate reason for denying civil marraige to same-sex couples,” Marshall wrote.

The court rejected the claim of a lower court judge that the primary purpose of marriage was procreation.

While Americans have become more accepting toward homosexuality over the past few decades, Americans are significantly less tolerant than citizens of most other advanced democracies in Europe and North America. In 2002, the Pew Global Attitudes Project surveyed public attitudes across a wide range of social and political issues in 44 nations, and found that the question of homosexuality highlights a stark global divide over social values.

Openness toward homosexuality is most widespread in the Western European nations of France, Britain, Italy and Germany, where more say homosexuality should be accepted by society than not by well over three-to-one. Residents of Canada, as well as the Czech and Slovak Republics also take an overwhelmingly accepting position on the issue of homosexuality.

Americans, by comparison, are split on this issue. A bare majority of Americans (51%) believe homosexuality should be accepted, while 42% disagree. In this regard, American attitudes have less in common with Western Europe or Canada than with Latin America, where opinion is also largely divided.

Across Africa, and in most predominantly Muslim nations such as Indonesia, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Uzbekistan, Jordan, Lebanon and Turkey, lopsided majorities believe homosexuality should not be accepted by society. There is similar opposition to social acceptance in India, Vietnam and South Korea.


6
Nov 03

Welcoming Religious and Spiritual Groups

Symbolic Red Spiral

Affirmation (Mormon). Box 46022, Los Angeles, CA 90046;
(213) 255-7251; www.affirmation.org

Affirmation (United Methodist). Box 1021, Evanston, IL 60204;
(708) 475-0499

American Baptists Concerned. Box 16128, Oakland, CA 94610;
(510) 530-6562, fax (510) 530-6501

Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists.
c/o Rev. Brenda Moulton, Box 2596, Attleboro Falls, MA
02763-0894; (508) 226-1945, WABapist@aol.com

Axios – Eastern and Orthodox Christian Gay Men and Women. 328
West 17th Street, #4F, New York, NY 10011; (212) 989-6211;
www.qrd.org/qrd/www/orgs/axios

Brethren/Mennonite Council for Lesbian and Gay Concerns.
Box 65724, Washington, DC 20035-5724; www.webcom.com/bmc

Buddhist Association of the Gay and Lesbian Community.
Box 1974, Bloomfield, NJ 07003

Casa de Cristo Evangelical Church. 1029 E. Turney, Phoenix, AZ
85014; (602) 265-2831; www.casadecristo.org

Christian Lesbians Out Together. Box 758, Jamaica Plain, MA 02130

Conference for Catholic Lesbians. Box 436, Planetarium Station,
New York, NY, 10024

Dignity, Inc., (Roman Catholic). 1500 Massachusetts Avenue, NW.
Suite 11, Washington, DC 20005; (202) 861-0017;
www.disgnityusa.org

Emergence International (Christian Scientist). Box 581, Kentfield, CA
94914-0581; (415) 548-1818

Evangelicals Concerned. c/o Ralph Blair, 311 East 72nd Street,
Suite 1-G, New York, NY 10021; www.ecwr.org

Evangelicals Together. 7985 Santa Monica Boulevard, Suite 109,
Box 16, West Hollywood, CA 90046-0016; (213) 656-8570

Friends for Lesbian/Gay Concerns (Quakers). 143 Campbell Ave.,
Ithaca, NY 14850; (607) 272-1024, fax (607) 272-0801

Gay American Indians. 1347 Divisadero St. #312, San Francisco, CA
94115; (415) 621-3485

Gay, Lesbians and Affirming Disciples Alliance (Disciples of
Christ). Box 19223, Indianapolis, IN 46219-0223; (319) 324-6231;
www.gladalliance.org

Honesty (Southern Baptist Convention). c/o David Tribble,
603 Quail’s Run Road, #C-1, Louisville, KY 40207

Integrity, Inc. (Episcopal). 1718 M St. NW, PM Box 148, Washington,
DC 20036; (202) 462-9193; www.integrityusa.org

Interfaith Working Group. Box 11706, Philadelphia, PA 19101;
(215) 235-3050, iwg@libertynet.org

Lifeline, Inc. (Baptists). c/o Rev. James T. Williams, Sr. M.D., 8150
Lakecrest Drive, Box 619, Greenbelt, MD 20770-0461

Lutherans Concerned. Box 10461, Fort Dearborn Station,
Chicago, IL 60610; www.lcna.org

More Light Presbyterians. Box 38, New Brunswick, NJ 08903-0038;
(908) 932-7501; www.mlp.org

National Gay Pentecostal Alliance. Box 1391, Schenectady, NY
12301-1391; (518) 372-6001

New Ways Ministry (Roman Catholic). c/o Francis DeBernardo,
4012 29th Street, Mt. Rainier, MD 20712; (301) 277-5674

Nichiren Association (Buddhist). Box 1935, Los Angeles, CA 90078

Reconciling Congregation Program (RCP), 3801 N Keeler Ave.,
Chicago, IL 60641, (773) 736-5526, www.rcp.org

Reformed Church in America Gay Caucus. Box 8174, Philadelphia,
PA 19101-8174

Religious Science International. PO Box 2152, Spokane, WA 99210;
www.rsintl.org

Seventh-Day Adventist Kinship International. Box 3840, Los Angeles,
CA 90078-3840; West (213) 876-2076, East (617) 436-5950;
www.sdakinship.org

Sovereignty (Jehovah’s Witnesses). Box 27242, Santa, CA 92799

Unitarian Universalist Office for Lesbian and Gay Concerns. 167 Milk
St. #406, Boston, MA 02115; www.uua.org/obgltc/
United Church Coalition for Lesbian/Gay Concerns. 18 North
College Street, Athens, OH 45701; (614) 593-7301

United Lesbian and Gay Christian Scientists. Box 2171, Beverly
Hills, CA 90213-2171

Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches.
5300 Santa Monica Boulevard, Suite 304, Los Angeles, CA 90029;
(213) 464-5100

World Congress of Gay and Lesbian Jewish Organizations. P.O. Box
23379, Washington, DC 20036; (202) 452-7424; www.wcgljo.org

Wingspan, St. Paul Reformation Lutheran Church. 100 North Oxford
Street, Saint Paul, MN 55104; (612) 224-3371, fax (612) 224-6228,
WNGSPAN@aol.com

[from PFLAG]


6
Nov 03

CAUTION: Ex-Gay Groups

The following organizations purport that they can change the sexual orientation
of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people through
prayer, twelve-step type programs or behavior modification. The
American Psychiatric Association states that there is no evidence that
such efforts are effective and that they can be, in fact, harmful.

Crossover (Doug Horton)

Desert Stream, Los Angeles, CA

Exodus International, San Rafael, CA

His Heart Ministries, Aurora, CO

Homosexuals Anonymous, Fort Worth, TX

Homosexuals Anonymous Fellowship, Reading, PA

Isaih 56 (Terry Wier), Dallas, TX

Living Hope Ministries (Eddie Traughber), Arlington, TX

Living Waters Ministry (Jeff Jeffus), Arlington, TX

Love in Action, San Rafael, CA

North America Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays (PFOX),
Anthony Falzarano, Washington, DC

Outpost, Inc., Minneapolis, MN

Spatula Ministries, La Habra, CA

[from PFLAG]


6
Nov 03

CAUTION: Anti-Gay Groups

The following groups teach that homosexual behavior is a sin, thereby
forcing many gay people and their loved ones to choose between their
faith and being true to themselves.

American Family Association, Tupelo, MS

Chalcedon, Vallecito, CA

Christian Coalition, Chesapeake, VA

Colorado for Family Values

Concerned Women of America, Washington, DC

Coral Ridge Ministries, Fort Lauderdale, FL

Eagle Forum, Alton, IL

Family Research Council, Washington, DC

Focus on the Family, Colorado Springs, CO

Free Congress Foundation, Washington, DC

Illinois Family Institute

Indiana Family Institute

Mississippi Family Council

National Association of Christian Educators/Citizens for Excellence in
Education, Costa Mesa, CA

Oklahoma Family Policy Council

Operation Rescue, Binghampton, NY

The Center for Arizona Policy

The Promise Keepers, Boulder, CO

Traditional Values Coalition, Anaheim, CA

[from PFLAG]