The following editorial Canada’s Enlighetened Stand on Gay Marriage is from The Globe and Mail (Canada’s national newspaper).
The [Canadian] Senate rang with cheers on Wednesday night when the
chamber gave final legislative approval to a bill making same-sex
marriage legal right across the country. The eruption was very much in
order. By becoming just the fourth nation in the world to allow
homosexuals to wed, this country has burnished its image as a decent,
tolerant nation.
The prejudice against gays and lesbians is one of the oldest there is. For millennia, they have been shunned as deviants, freaks and
outcasts. The same-sex-marriage bill signals that, officially at
least, that long, dark era of ostracism is over. Homosexuals are at
last considered full and equal members of the human family.
And family is what this law is all about. Every person, gay or
straight, at some time feels the need for lasting love and attachment. Marriage is the ideal place to find it. Though many people find happiness outside the institution, only marriage provides the safe, secure and recognized foundation for lasting union. When they wed, people say to each other: I will be there for you, come what may, forever. At the same time, family, friends and society at large say: We are with you. By making a public, legal commitment of their devotion, couples gain the chance to deepen their connection and form a partnership that lasts. By recognizing that commitment, society helps make it last. These are the ties that bind.
To deny homosexuals the blessing of marriage was not only cruel but
stupid. Cruel, because it marked them as lesser beings, unlikely to
form lasting bonds of affection and unworthy of society’s approbation. Gays and lesbians grew up knowing that, however deep their love for another, they would never be married. Stupid, because it reinforced the very traits that many in straight society found disturbing: promiscuity, flamboyance, irresponsibility. As long as society treated them as queer, many homosexuals threw the taunt back by embracing the party lifestyle, forming a rich underworld where they could feel accepted and safe. Now, at last, they can feel that way in the light of day.
Many will choose to stay in the underworld and never marry. That is
their right. But by opening the door to its central institution,
society is signalling that there is a secure place for them in the
wider world. That is good for homosexual society, which can grow
beyond its stage of adolescent rebellion. It is also good for society
at large, which has a strong interest in lasting unions and
responsible sexual conduct.
Of course, prejudice against gays and lesbians lives on. The approval
of same-sex marriage will not banish an age-old hatred overnight.
Married or otherwise, homosexuals will continue to struggle for
understanding and acceptance. But welcoming them into the compact of
marriage is the surest signal a society can send that it no longer
considers them beyond the pale. They are family now. Canada is one of
the first places in the world to say that. Canadians should feel
proud.
We are not legislating, honorable members, for people far away and not known by us. We are enlarging the opportunity for happiness to our neighbors, our co-workers, our friends and, our families: at the same time we are making a more decent society, because a decent society is one that does not humiliate its members. In the poem The Family, our [gay] poet Luis Cernuda was sorry because: How does man live in denial in vain by giving rules that prohibit and condemn?
It is true that they are only a minority, but their triumph is everyone’s triumph. It is also the triumph of those who oppose this law, even though they do not know this yet: because it is the triumph of Liberty. Their victory makes all of us (even those who oppose the law) better people, it makes our society better.
A society that avoids senseless suffering of decent human beings is a better society. With the approval of this Bill, our country takes another step in the path of liberty and tolerance that was begun by the democratic change of government. Our children will look at us incredulously if we tell them that many years ago, our mothers had less rights than our fathers, or if we tell them that people had to stay married against their will even though they were unable to share their lives.
In recent days, [...] newspapers have reported on the proceedings of the United Church of Christ General Synod in regard to a resolution that was before it. This resolution supports full legal and religious marriage equality for same-sex couples.
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Jul 05
Compassion for Iranian Gay Teens Lost to Religious Insanity
Iran state media reports say the two teenagers were child molesters but their credibility is lacking. Details at Direland and The Washington Blade. Further updated 8/05 at Xtra.ca and 8/17 at Direland.
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